New Workshop: Jumpstart Your EFT Practice

 - by lucie

Join me for a three-workshop series taking place on Saturday 15, 22 and 29 of January, from 3 to 5. Mixing quite a bit of instructions with a lot of hands-on tapping, these workshops are ideal to get you started (or put you back on tracks) with an energy tool designed to change your relationship with yourself in general, and with new year’s resolutions in particular.

  •  Workshop 1 will addresses the basics of the technique, and in particularly the tapping recipe on which everything else is constructed.
  •  Workshop 2 will focus on how to craft incredibly potent EFT sentences to achieve more autonomy in your practice.
  •  Workshop 3 tells you what to do when EFT is not working, and is dedicated to trouble-shooting your practice.

You can choose to attend one or more of either of these workshops. Each one is only $10 (this is an unbelievable value that is well worth $100 in price)!
Bring your issues and your resolutions list!

Living with RSD

 - by lucie

thematrix777

I am going to be the main guest on a blog radio show dedicated to pain management for people suffering from chronic conditions such as Reflex Sympathetic Dystrophy or Fibromyalgia. I will be introducing EFT to a brand new audience : an average of 300 people are following the show live and about 1000 (!) download the podcast afterward.

Thank you to the dedicated host Trudy Thomas aka thematrix777 for having me and helping spread the word about EFT!

To have a visual support of the different tapping points involved in an EFT session, click here: http://eftwithlucie.com/2010/06/13/tapping-points-where-are-they

Listen to the show or dowload it here: http://www.blogtalkradio.com/thematrix777/2010/06/15/living-with-rsd-reflex-sympathetic-dystrophy

Tapping Points: Where Are They?

 - by lucie

EFT Cheat Sheet

  1. Find the sore spot on your chest: it can move from one person to another, from one side of the body to another, and from day to day. If you can’t find it, use the karate chop point.
  2. While rubbing, repeat the set-up sentence 3 times: “Even though I have this problem, I deeply and completely love and accept myself.”
  3. Tap with two fingers between 5 to 9 times on each point from top to bottom. Tap firmly but gently, don’t hurt yourself. And focus on the problem at hand while tapping by repeating the reminder phrase “This problem.”

To download the cheat sheet, click on the following link:

EFT Cheat Sheet

Emotional Eating and EFT

 - by lucie

In order to pack the maximum benefits for the nice people taking my 1 1/2 hour workshop on “Overcoming Emotional Eating and Cravings with EFT” at the Boston Skillshare 2010, I created the document dowloadable at the bottom of the page.

In 6 small pages it gathers a series of self-discovery questions to jump-start the process, the details of my EFT protocol for healing emotional eating in the long run, and an EFT cheat sheet with instructions on how and where to tap.

With this tool and the already healing experience of the workshop, most people should be empowered to be their own therapist and reclaim their power over food. Yet, for some, there might be deeply buried core issues that need more work to be unearthed or there might be painful traumas that would require the gentle and safe guidance of a professional to be dealt with. In both cases, I urge everybody to reach for their phone and make an appointment with their favorite EFT therapist.

I hope, in a not so distant future, that EFT becomes a widely used tool by the majority of mental and physical healthprofessionals. And that is why I keep spreading the word. Don’t hesitate to do the same!

Click below to dowload for free this protocol:

Workshop

The Case for the Glass of Water

 - by lucie

I remember the first time I got in contact with an EFT website that was re-inventing the wheel by giving their own version of the EFT tapping sequence with a twist: drinking a full glass of water was recommended before starting the process in order to, allegedly, allow energies to flow better. That made me slightly uncomfortable. I began to suspect that there was a hint of dishonesty behind. Even though virtually all EFT websites pay due respects to the founder of EFT, Gary Craig, some barely acknowledge that the tapping algorithm is his creation and present their own version with just a slight “innovation” so as to enable them to claim the full paternity for their tapping recipe. The excuse of introducing a mere glass of water in the sequence seemed quite shallow.
Then I discovered that Gary Craig shared my opinion. He expressed himself clearly enough in an article published on his website (http://emofree.com/cutting-edge.htm) and titled “Why EFT is always on the Cutting Edge – and some useful perspectives”:

Drinking Water: Some promoters insist that clients must be well hydrated or else EFT’s benefits will be impaired.

I see no evidence of this whatsoever and yet it is sometimes portrayed as “the missing piece” in EFT.  I have helped countless people with EFT and have never asked any of them to drink water during the process.  Further, I once delivered EFT to a roomful of 500 people and got results with all but one.  No one was asked to drink water.

The general idea behind this EFT/water contention is that water is essential to the conduction of energy within the body.  Maybe so, but we’re already 70+%  water so what good does it do to add another 1% through drinking a glass of water?  Further, It takes an hour or two for a glass of water to be absorbed and thus hydrate the cells. By that time, most EFT sessions are over.

Watch professional basketball players, for example.  They run up and down the court sweating profusely and take in very little water. Yet their energy still courses through their bodies in perfect fashion. Basketball is far more demanding on the mental and physical body than an EFT session and yet maintaining optimum hydration is not required for these athletes to perform at top levels.

A new perspective on this whole discussion began to dawn on me in the early months of 2009. In January 2009, I got attuned to reiki by the reiki master Ellen Sokolow. The attunement itself was a very powerful experience that propelled me across the last miles separating me from the intuitive healer I am today. Ellen shared with me after the ceremony that reiki helps you become who you are. And it didn’t take weeks before I understood very concretely what she meant: my intuition had been multiplied tenfold! Not only was I able to perceive other people’s energy with much more vividness in my every day life, but in the midst of doing EFT with a client, I could suddenly feel things they were experiencing in their bodies, emotions they were going through and see flashes of their memories before my eyes. Even with my history of being an emotional empath, I was overwhelmed by the amount of sensations and intuitions I was receiving… But the most obvious information I received had a lot to do with dehydration.

When our bodies are dehydrated, the lack of water often produces a headache. In my case – lucky me! – the only headaches I get are dehydration headaches. The brain being 75% water is particularly sensitive to a lack of water. The body, sensing that the water supply is running low, generates histamines to alert us to the impending dehydration. The histamines are accompanied by pain and fatigue. Hence the headache… (See the following articles in wikipedia and buzzle)

So the first time I felt a dehydration headache during an EFT session with a client, and a much stronger one than I was used to, 15 minutes after having drunk a big glass of water, I knew that the problem didn’t come from me. I got up and fetched a glass of water for the person I was working with. She thanked me saying that she felt very thirsty and was beginning to feel dehydrated. Ah-ah!

This experiment has been consistently reproduced. Every time I’m very thirsty, it doesn’t impede the client’s healing process. But if they are thirsty, not only do I feel it (and strongly so), but healing seems to be stopped until they drink a glass of water and let their bodies relax out of emergency mode. Usually the results are next to instantaneous: one mere minute is more than enough to dispel the headache and let the energy flow back on.

In conclusion, my opinion is more nuanced than Gary’s. It is needless to include the glass of water in an allegedly new-and-improved tapping recipe, especially since dehydration headaches aren’t that common. But when they occur, healing is stopped in its tracks just as completely as if an energy toxin was present in the room or in the patient’s body. And it might very well be the case: perhaps the histamines produced by the body to alert us when dehydration threatens act as toxins for this particular client.

At any rate, I am incredibly grateful that I’m equipped with an internal tool to unmistakably detect when this phenomenon is happening. My intuition as a therapist is an invaluable gift that keeps surprising me, again and again…

Boston Skillshare 2010

 - by lucie

I will be hosting a free workshop on cravings and emotional eating at the new edition of the Boston Skillshare.

I’m scheduled on Sunday, May 30th from 3:15 to 4:45 pm at 300 Fenway, Boston, MA, Block C, room 201 West.

Come and check out my workshop

Or dowload the free protocol on healing your emotional eating habits with EFT:

Overcome Emotional Eating with EFT